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Our relationship with our parents always exceed to the extremities because they are our biological origins. No one can ever separate that even the adopted ones are ever sure to find that missing link of who their parents really are either just for curiosity's sake or to be with them in the end.



 But what is with parents? Sometimes daughters are closest to the father and sons to the mother, they said. But others are just vise versa. Is it really big deal to state this fact? Well, maybe because daughters will soon marry and trying to find ideals with their father as models and maybe because women are looking forward to be strong like their father to face the very true facts of the real world. How about the sons? Well, maybe because men are likely immune to someone cuddling them, babysitting them, taking care of them (even if they do not boldly accept that fact...hehehe...hurrah to feminism!) that is why they looked up to their mother and sometimes even set ideal characteristics like their mothers. But this whole idea is just applicable to worthy mothers and fathers who are really meant to be looked up to. Why am I saying these? Because, we are all aware that there are worst parents in the world, those who let unusual things happen to their children. Let us leave that nightmare....Let us just be positive, anyway.
So how's our relationship with our parents? Are we civil to them? Are we closed with them? Do we share things private to them? Do we confide with them? Or are we the type who are indifferent to their parents? Those who shout at them? Those who have no respect?
It is a good thing to get close with our parents because they are the ones who knew us from the day we were born. They were the ones who take good care of us, taught us with things that we might encounter soon in our growing up. So, why don't we include them also in our private lives for some time, but of course, with limitations you can only know. They might know how to deal with our qualms on falling in love, our worries of having a failure boyfriend or girlfriend. Parents still know how to deal sometimes because they might have encountered things you are worrying now. But, also be reminded, that they might not know things in your generation, so you must also understand their anger or their fascination. Do not laugh, do not cry...just explain and ask for their opinion. Then weigh everything, you'll never know they might be your biggest help.
On the other hand, to those who bear no respect to their parents and looked down to them because they are less educated, WELL, KABOOM! for you...you will not be who you are now if not for their sacrifices no matter how little they have given you! It is not always RIGHT to disrespect parents. Just the fact that you came from them, they are still who they are in your life, no matter bad things went with you. There are proper ways to deal with notions like that, proper authorities, proper time. Just NEVER DISRESPECT YOUR PARENTS IN ANY WAY! Or else, you will reap the fruits of your labor, when you will have your own children, you will wonder why they disrespect you when you did it with your parents before. (History repeats itself...if you let it happen)